How to deal with guys **HOT TOPIC**

Nowadays it gets more and more difficult to understand men. We would think that as we grow up this would become easier, but guess what, IT IS NOT!!!

From the moment we meet a guy, our emotions go wild. Most of the times this is generated by physical attraction and there is always this feeling you get (called butterflies). Now my point is  - what happens if you start hanging out with this person, you start getting interested in him and you want more than just casual dating, or 'fun' and you get... NOTHING!? He tells you that he still wants to hang out with you, blah, blah, blah BUT NOTHING SERIOUS? How do you deal with it?
Now, from my previous experiences, I could say that guys are just aliens trapped in human bodies that think we are plain dolls who they can use and play with anytime they want. NOOO!! No matter how we try, what we do or even what we say, they will not change their mind. The difficult part is when he tells you (that you are just for "fun") might be a little too late and you could already be in (love) too deep.

There are two options to this case:
1. You can still hang out with him and pretend like you don't have any feelings for him (even though you know that if you do that, it will be worse in the end);
2. MOVE ON. Say - "Thank you very much, I had a good time and sorry you couldn't handle me" Don't show any signs of hurt or sadness. Play hard to get and pretend like you don't care (Yes, It is hard, but it works).

Guys feel like they have the power over us and they can make us believe or fall for anything they say, but if we stop and think, that is not true. We are better than that!!

No matter how in love you might be with a guy, if he wants "nothing serious" don't go any further with him - He is bad news.

-Tan